My Icebreaker Speech for Toastmasters
Yesterday, one of the ladies who was going to do a speech had to cancel due to sickness. She sent out an email letting everyone know. Before I knew it, my fingers hit "Reply All" and typed in "I'll take her place." I hit Send before I had a chance to overthink it. I'm so glad I did it!
I still felt very nervous. The evaluator said I had good eye contact and expression. Really?? I can honestly say that I wasn't aware of that. I knew it went well, because I made it through the script and didn't faint or throw up. But, my evaluator, and several other people said it was really good for an icebreaker (introduction) speech.
In fact, I won "Best Speaker" for the night.
With all that encouragement, I am ready to keep going. Oh, the day I can feel comfortable (or not scared) about public speaking — it can't be too far away!
Here's my speech (I held up shoes for each section):
If the Shoe Fits
Put aside your
stereotypical view of women. I do not
love shoe shopping, and I do not have a shoe closet that would rival Imelda
Marcos. I do, however, have a few shoes that will give you insight into my
life.
[brown shoe] First,
I’ll show you my very practical side. Plain, brown slip-ons with orthotic
inserts. Could I be more boring? My children say, no, it’s not humanly
possible. You want to know the really scary part? I have a matching pair in
black. Yes, I’m a conservative, practical person who works on my feet part of
the day. I’m a teacher in a small, parochial school in
[organ shoe] My next
shoe is a bit different from what you may have in your closet. It’s even a
little dusty, because I haven’t worn it since I moved to
[tennis shoe] I’m not
going to lie. I’m no athlete. I don’t have an athletic gene in my body. This
tennis shoe does take me on walks, where I listen to audiobooks and try to destress.
This tennis shoe also helps me run errands most of the weekend. This shoe even
convinced me to try running. However, it’s going to take a lot more than one
shoe to get me to run a marathon!
[slipper] Fuzzy footwear is what I wear when I’m spending
time at home. It keeps my always cold feet from turning blue. It keeps me
company when I’m surfing the internet or when I’m writing. I could sit at my
computer all day, if my slippers had their way.
I tried to find a shoe that conveyed the most important things
about me. That’s when I realized they’re more like socks. Socks for my heart. No matter which shoe I wear, I always wear my
faith and my family. My faith in Jesus as my Savior and my family (my husband
Greg and my two girls) are so natural, so deep in my heart, that I’m wearing
them with each set of shoes. My faith
and family keep my heart warm all the time, and I wouldn’t think of wearing my
shoes without them.
Oh, and one more thing.
Guess what I just bought. A new
pair of shoes! What do you think this
one says about me? [purple]

That speech was you! Thanks for sharing.
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Thanks! I thought it would be good for other people (who read this blog) to get to know me a little, too.
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Nice! Thanks for sharing!
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Thanks, Rocky. Thanks for reading!
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Congratulations, Stephenie, on conquering the Icebreaker milestone.
I admire your boldness in jumping at the vacant speaking slot. I encourage you to continue this as you will learn and grow as a speaker faster the more often you speak.
I also admire the technique you demonstrate in writing your Icebreaker: to take a seemingly common object -- shoes -- and use this as a central element around which you reveal glimpses of your life. Fantastic! Your technique is similar to one that I recommend in my Toastmasters speech series article: The Icebreaker.
I wish you continued success in your public speaking journey.
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Thanks, Andrew. Sorry I had to cut your signature off. GoDaddy didn't like the length. Here's a link to Andrew's site for anyone who wishes to visit. I'm going to bookmark the site myself! Six Minutes: A Public Speaking and Presentations Skills Blog
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